It can be very hard to detach feelings about separation, divorce and the life thereafter from dealing with issues in the family Court.
It is natural, for both parents to bring in their historic issues and want some kind of restorative justice. Unfortunately, in cases which involve children and shared care arrangements, the adults are a secondary concern to the needs of the juniors.
A explainer piece about what Domestic Abuse is. How to identify it. What are your options if affected by it and some thoughts about how Children are affected by being caught in toxic relationships. a Good read.